Most of us might encountered with these type of situations(Gay Encounter). lots of my friends told me how they encountered in the embarrassing situations with "Dandia Guys".
1. In the crowded bus.
2. In the bus, train or flight person sitting besides you touches you.
3.  In the bus, train or flight person sitting besides you pretends that he is sleeping and moves his head from shoulder to all over your body.
4. In the movie theater suddenly a hand start rubbing your thigh.
5. In the Bar a man offers you a drink and be friendly with you and starts touching you.
6. You gave someone a  lift (because you remind of the days when u used to ask for a lift while going to college) and Eureka!! you found another one touching your thigh.
7. You asked lift from someone and after dropping you he asked you IF YOU ARE INTERESTED.
8. Online chatting with a person makes you find out the REAL TRUTH.
9. Your cook is very feminine and he is....

and there is a long list...

few enjoyed these situations, few make fun, few changed their lives, few got scared, and few beat those guys to death.

and here is the story

While I was in IIT Madras there is one swiss girl Nathalie she is good friend of mine. One day her Sister came to meet her in IIT from Switzerland and we decided to take her to Besant Nagar Beach and have some beer on the beach.we reached at the beach after looking at the crowd at the Wine shop I asked them to walk towards beach and I will bring the beers. AT THE WINE SHOP a Dark Big Fat person with black huge mustaches came close to me and started talking to me(He was an autowala)

Autowala: Saar! where you want to go Saar!
Me: nowhere, just now I came yaar!
Autowala: Saar! that is my auto sir.
Me: (gave him a strange look)
Autowala: Saar! I will not charge more money.
Me: what? but I dont want to go.
Autowala: only Bus fare, Saar!
Me: NOOOO!
Autowala: OK! Saar! Free of cost Saar!
Me: (busy in counting money to pay for beer)
Autowala: Saar! come with me I will show you my home Saar! (and came closer to me)
Me: (I got scared and doing everything in hurry) I dont want to go anywhere with you.
Autowala: Saar! My home is just nearby
Me: (rush from there and stand with Nathalie and her sis)

after that he was coming towards me but, when he saw that I am with the girls and he gave up and started his auto.I was so scared and narrated the story to Nathalie. she took all the beers from my hand and said go go enjoy! its okay we can drink alone and burst into laughter.

I was so scared!

I respect their love for men, but I hate when they do such kind of thing. Its like attempting Rape.

There are different things people  do after drinking...
1. Some keep quite/silent.
2. Some shout and create menace.
3. Some start speaking English (I don't know How and Why?).
4. Few start cleaning rooms.
5. Some want to go for a drive.
6. Some want to dance.
7. Some vomit.
8. Some speaks a lot.
9. Someone like me use to take care of the people who are drunk

According to me there are three stages of drinking in my life.

1. Kept on drinking and nothing happened: I am trying to recollect it from my memory that it happened twice in my life once while I was in IIT Madras I sat with my friend (THE Sachin Tyagi) we bought a bottle of Rum or vintage (1 ltr). and we started drinking and finished it and absolutely nothing happened. we wanted more but all wine shop were closed.

2. Amazing suroor:  I dont remember that how many times it happened but it happened alot. that was beautiful it was more good if I don't have to take care of anyone but enjoy, I think that happened only few times anyways I enjoyed even then also.

3. Blackout: I never lost my conscious but my lots of friend does. its just blank for them they dont remember a thing. I drank a lot and after that I prayed to God also-"let this night pass and I will not drink this much again". But I remember each and everything.

For some drinking is the worst thing because they saw lots of ppl (from families/friends/neighbors or unknowns) fighting, falling in nalli's, Gutter's, etc.,....
For me everything is bad if your addict of it. whatever it is drinking, smoking, praying, or anything....

Happy Drinking...

There are three rooms in my gym(where I go for workout)
1. Aerobics (Ladies compartment)
2.Cardio
3. Machines, dumbells, rods etc.

there are lots of women come for aerobics as well as for gym. Daily or max once in 4 days there is one new entry. Yesterday when I was working out a thought came into my mind, "reason of working out"
My reason is nothing but I like to workout.
today I will talk about the ladies only. Some are young, some are middle age, and some are of upper middle ages.The reasons they come to the gym are
1. Getting married and before marriage they want to loose weight (lot of weight). For mostly everybody marriage is a once in life time occasion and everybody want to look beautiful and slim on that day.
2. Few are newly married. Before marriage all guys says-" I like you as you are; You don't look fat"
but mostly after marriage-"why don't you work out, outing bhi ho jayegi. there is one gym nearby".
3. some come because they have nothing to do at that time.
4. some come they really need it.
5. some come to accompany their husbands/friends/brother.
6. Some come to show off their their figure and also to maintain it that way.
7. Some come because in office all of their colleagues are slimmer than them.

anyways! there are a lot of ladies there ;)
Cheers for that.

I think everybody have some embarrassing moment related to their sex act or porn watch.

I want to share on of my embarrassment with you all.
I was doing B.tech those days and was preparing for the exams in my home. After two days I have to
leave for my Hostel I suggested my brother to delete all the porn from our desktop. He completely ignored me and said nobody knows where is it.He just hide it. so we forgot about it and for around 25 days we stayed in our hostel and attended all the papers.

"My Bad luck" my exams got over early (before my elder brother)...when I reached home....
after an hour or so my dad called me and the conversation goes like this

DAD: what movies have you stored in the computer
ME: what movies
DAD: delete it
ME: what you are talking about
DAD: you have stored lots of Bad movies in there
ME: (CAUGHT!!) mmmmm... wo actually mmmm.... mmmm...
DAD: thats why you always asked for buying one more hard disk
ME: wo actually....mmmmm mmmmm...i asked bhaiya to delete this before go, but he didn't listen
DAD: delete them now, we understands that you need privacy...sometimes someone can use that    desktop.
ME: (with heads down) okay! I will delete it now.

(But I didn't)
I knew before itself the my dad is going to catch us....he is very sneaky kind of person when it comes to desktop.

but its a very old story(year 2002)
I was so scared that day! But I really wanted to ask my dad one question : how was our collection? ;)

Though this policy is OLD, it is revised...!
++++++++++++ +++++++++ +++++++++

Q: Daddy, why did we have to attack Iraq?
A: Because they had weapons of mass destruction honey.


Q: But the inspectors didn't find any weapons of mass destruction.
A: That's because the Iraqis were hiding them.

Q: And that's why we invaded Iraq?

A: Yep. Invasions always work better than inspections.

Q: But after we invaded them, we STILL didn't find any weapons of mass
destruction, did we?

A: That's because the weapons are so well hidden. Don't worry, we'll
find something, probably right before the 2008 election.

Q: Why did Iraq want all those weapons of mass destruction?

A: To use them in a war, silly.

Q: I'm confused. If they had all those weapons that they planned to
use in a war, then why didn't they use any of those weapons when we

went to war with them?
A: Well, obviously they didn't want anyone to know they had those
weapons, so they chose to die by the thousands rather than defend

themselves.

Q: That doesn't make sense Daddy. Why would they choose to die if they
had all those big weapons to fight us back with?

A: It's a different culture. It's not supposed to make sense.

Q: I don't know about you, but I don't think they had any of those
weapons our government said they did.

A: Well, you know, it doesn't matter whether or not they had those
weapons. We had another good reason to invade them anyway.

Q: And what was that?

A: Even if Iraq didn't have weapons of mass destruction, Saddam
Hussein was a cruel dictator, which is another good reason to invade
another country.


Q: Why? What does a cruel dictator do that makes it OK to invade his country?
A: Well, for one thing, he tortured his own people.

Q: Kind of like what they do in China?

A: Don't go comparing China to Iraq. China is a good economic
competitor, where millions of people work for slave wages in
sweatshops to make U.S. corporations richer.


Q: So if a country lets its people be exploited for American corporate
gain, it's a good country, even if that country tortures people?
A: Right.


Q: Why were people in Iraq being tortured?
A: For political crimes, mostly, like criticizing the government.
People who criticized the government in Iraq were sent to prison and

tortured.

Q: Isn't that exactly what happens in China?
A: I told you, China is different.

Q: What's the difference between China and Iraq?

A: Well, for one thing, Iraq was ruled by the Ba'ath party, while
China is Communist.

Q: Didn't you once tell me Communists were bad?

A: No, just Cuban Communists are bad.

Q: How are the Cuban Communists bad?
A: Well, for one thing, people who criticize the government in Cuba

are sent to prison and tortured.

Q: Like in Iraq?
A: Exactly.

Q: And like in China, too?
A: I told you, China's a good economic competitor. Cuba, on the other

hand, is not.

Q: How come Cuba isn't a good economic competitor?
A: Well, you see, back in the early 1960s, our government passed some

laws that made it illegal for Americans to trade or do any business
with Cuba until they stopped being communists and started being
capitalists like us.


Q: But if we got rid of those laws, opened up trade with Cuba, and
started doing business with them, wouldn't that help the Cubans become
capitalists?

A: Don't be a smart-ass.

Q: I didn't think I was being one.
A: Well, anyway, they also don't have freedom of religion in Cuba.


Q: Kind of like China and the Falun Gong movement?
A: I told you, stop saying bad things about China. Anyway, Saddam
Hussein came to power through a military coup, so he's not really a

legitimate leader anyway.

Q: What's a military coup?
A: That's when a military general takes over the government of a
country by force, instead of holding free elections like we do in the

United States.

Q: Didn't the ruler of Pakistan come to power by a military coup?
A: You mean General Pervez Musharraf? Uh, yeah, he did, but Pakistan

is our friend.

Q: Why is Pakistan our friend if their leader is illegitimate?
A: I never said Pervez Musharraf was illegitimate.


Q: Didn't you just say a military general who comes to power by
forcibly overthrowing the legitimate government of a nation is an
illegitimate leader?

A: Only Saddam Hussein. Pervez Musharraf is our friend, because he
helped us invade Afghanistan.

Q: Why did we invade Afghanistan?

A: Because of what they did to us on September 11th.

Q: What did Afghanistan do to us on September 11th?
A: Well, on September 11th, nineteen men, fifteen of them Saudi

Arabians, hijacked four airplanes and flew three of them into
buildings, killing over 3,000 Americans.

Q: So how did Afghanistan figure into all that?

A: Afghanistan was where those bad men trained, under the oppressive
rule of the Taliban.

Q: Aren't the Taliban those bad radical Islamics who chopped off

people's heads and hands?
A: Yes, that's exactly who they were. Not only did they chop off
people's heads and hands, but they oppressed women, too.


Q: Didn't the Bush administration give the Taliban 43 million dollars
back in May of 2001?
A: Yes, but that money was a reward because they did such a good job

fighting drugs.

Q: Fighting drugs?
A: Yes, the Taliban were very helpful in stopping people from growing
opium poppies.


Q: How did they do such a good job?
A: Simple. If people were caught growing opium poppies, the Taliban
would have their hands and heads cut off.


Q: So, when the Taliban cut off people's heads and hands for growing
flowers, that was OK, but not if they cut people's heads and hands off
for other reasons?

A: Yes. It's OK with us if radical Islamic fundamentalists cut off
people's hands for growing flowers, but it's cruel if they cut off
people's hands for stealing bread.


Q: Don't they also cut off people's hands and heads in Saudi Arabia?
A: That's different. Afghanistan was ruled by a tyrannical patriarchy
that oppressed women and forced them to wear burqas whenever they were

in public, with death by stoning as the penalty for women who did not
comply.

Q: Don't Saudi women have to wear burqas in public, too?

A: No, Saudi women merely wear a traditional Islamic body covering.

Q: What's the difference?
A: The traditional Islamic covering worn by Saudi women is a modest

yet fashionable garment that covers all of a woman's body except for
her eyes and fingers. The burqa, on the other hand, is an evil tool of
patriarchal oppression that covers all of a woman's body except for

her eyes and fingers.

Q: It sounds like the same thing with a different name.
A: Now, don't go comparing Afghanistan and Saudi Arabia. The Saudis

are our friends.

Q: But I thought you said 15 of the 19 hijackers on September 11th
were from Saudi Arabia.
A: Yes, but they trained in Afghanistan.


Q: Who trained them?
A: A very bad man named Osama bin Laden.

Q: Was he from Afghanistan?
A: Uh, no, he was from Saudi Arabia too. But he was a bad man, a very bad man.


Q: I seem to recall he was our friend once.
A: Only when we helped him and the mujahadeen repel the Soviet
invasion of Afghanistan back in the 1980s.


Q: Who are the Soviets? Was that the Evil Communist Empire Ronald
Reagan talked about?
A: There are no more Soviets. The Soviet Union broke up in 1990 or

thereabouts, and now they have elections and capitalism like us. We
call them Russians now.

Q: So the Soviets ? I mean, the Russians ? are now our friends?

A: Well, not really. You see, they were our friends for many years
after they stopped being Soviets, but then they decided not to support
our invasion of Iraq, so we're mad at them now. We're also mad at the

French and the Germans because they didn't help us invade Iraq either.

Q: So the French and Germans are evil, too?
A: Not exactly evil, but just bad enough that we had to rename French

fries and French toast to Freedom Fries and Freedom Toast.

Q: Do we always rename foods whenever another country doesn't do what
we want them to do?

A: No, we just do that to our friends. Our enemies, we invade.

Q: But wasn't Iraq one of our friends back in the 1980s?
A: Well, yeah. For a while.


Q: Was Saddam Hussein ruler of Iraq back then?
A: Yes, but at the time he was fighting against Iran, which made him
our friend, temporarily.


Q: Why did that make him our friend?
A: Because at that time, Iran was our enemy.

Q: Isn't that when he gassed the Kurds?

A: Yeah, but since he was fighting against Iran at the time, we looked
the other way, to show him we were his friend.

Q: So anyone who fights against one of our enemies automatically

becomes our friend?
A: Most of the time, yes.

Q: And anyone who fights against one of our friends is automatically an enemy?
A: Sometimes that's true, too. However, if American corporations can

profit by selling weapons to both sides at the same time, all the
better.

Q: Why?
A: Because war is good for the economy, which means war is good for

America Also, since God is on America's side, anyone who opposes war
is a godless un-American Communist. Do you understand now why we
attacked Iraq?


Q: I think so. We attacked them because God wanted us to, right?
A: Yes.

Q: But how did we know God wanted us to attack Iraq?

A: Well, you see, God personally speaks to George W. Bush and tells
him what to do.

Q: So basically, what you're saying is that we attacked Iraq because

George W. Bush hears voices in his head?
A: Yes! You finally understand how the world works. Now close your
eyes, make yourself comfortable, and go to sleep. Good night.

“80 percent of success is showing up.” - Woody Allen

You know you need to work out, but you’re having trouble getting up
the enthusiasm. How do you find motivation to exercise when you just
don’t feel like getting off your butt? I ask myself this question every
now and then, and I have the feeling I’m not the only one.

There are a million ways to motivate yourself to exercise, actually, but these are a few that have worked for me.

• Have fun. If you hate running, don’t go to the
  track for exercise. Find something you like. The list of different
  kinds of exercises are nearly endless. The only really important thing
  is to get your body moving and your heart rate up.
• How you feel after a workout. I always feel great after a good workout. It’s a high. And I let that motivate me the next time.
• Calories burned. If you count calories (and it’s
  really one of the most effective ways to lose weight), you know that
  the more you exercise, the more calories you burn — and the bigger your
  calorie deficit.
• How you’re going to look. Imagine a slimmer, fitter you. Now let that visualization drive you.
• Change it up. Even if you have a routine you
  enjoy, mix it up from time to time. Try entirely different exercises.
  You can check out a tape at the library and try yoga or kick boxing for
  an afternoon. This will not only keep you interested, it will break
  your muscles out of their routine and help produce better results.
• Get a buddy. Exercising with a friend introduces a
  positive kind of peer pressure. You will be more likely to go to the
  gym if you know someone is waiting there for you. Talking and laughing
  while exercising will also keep you from being bored.
• An exercise log/graph. For some reason, writing it down is extremely important. Really. Do it for a week and you’ll see what I mean.
• Get appropriate clothing. If you don’t have the
  appropriate clothes for the excercise, it can be irritating,
  uncomfortable, frustrating, or even unsafe. If you exercise outside
  after dusk, be sure you have reflective clothing to prevent traffic
  accidents. Also be sure the clothing looks nice; if you don’t like the
  way your clothing looks, you may feel uncomfortable, and less likely to
  exercise.
• Pack Ahead of Time: An iPod, athletic shoes, a
  towel… whatever. Walking around the house trying to find stuff is a
  good time to lose your resolve. Put everything together in your gym
  bag. When you finish working out, take out things that need to be
  laundered and replace them immediately.
• Have a Goal. What do you want to achieve? Make it
  specific, make it meaningful, make it obtainable. Be sure to have
  short-term benchmarks along the way. It’s OK to change your goals if
  the original plan doesn’t work, but have a goal. Regularly evaluate how
  you are doing on your goals.
• Success stories. I find the success stories of
  others incredibly inspirational. If a fitness website has success
  stories, I’ll almost always read them.
• Reward Yourself. Have a healthy reward when you
  reach a goal. Buy yourself that cute pair of bike shorts. Go for a
  weekend hiking tri. Soak in the sauna for your “workout” that day. Buy
  a new yoga video. Whatever works for you to celebrate in line with your
  healthy lifestyle!

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What is the importance of a person in your life?

What is the importace of our mom in our life?
she is connected to us I dont know how but strings are attached..even I am an independent person and not that much homely kind of person..but still she is always in my mind.
What about dad?
Dad! hmmm! he is the GODFATHER of the family..when we were kids we dont like the things he used to say...we dont like the way he observes stuffs and he deals with them..but now when I see things..I am like my dad..I do most of the things like my dad..like he is somewhere inside me controlling me..
Brothers huhh!
Damn! we were fighting like we were enemies in the childhood but as we grown up we are more than friends... my brother was my best friend in my teen age....
Wife?
she is the sweetest thing happened in my life ever, she spice up my life  in different ways, and she have a great importance in my life...you can understand by reading my poem section...you can see her everywhere in that section..

OOPSSS!
actually I was talking about the topic Importance of a person in someones life and started about my relations...
what my point is...

there are lots of person that you dont even know but they exists in your life and attract your attentions....
like our neighbours, they used to shout alot and always listen TV in the full volume that I can"t even communicate verbally anyone in my home.
like the kids of my apartments they used to jump on the roof, always play with the side view mirror of my car and it takes a lot of time to set it right.
like the guy live in front of our house always turn on his lights at around 11:00 PM
like sweeper, he always knocks our door even when daily asked for not doing it
like the call from idea cusotmer care that comes daily at 4:00 PM
call from ABN Amro that rings daily at 11:00 AM,
like the security gaurd in my office who used to note down the time at what we comes to office and he thinks nobody notice it.
like the catrer who brings our office food, Set the Buffet table and get out of the caffeteria as soon as someone gets in...so that no one can find him to complaint about the food.

and there are lots n lots of people we regularly meet our life...

This is the must watch movie...I loved it alot...and this is the last scene of the movie and I am so much ipressed with it...here it goes!

Trask: Mr. Sims, you are a cover-up artist and you are a liar.

Frank Slade: But not a snitch!

Trask: Excuse me?

Frank Slade: No, I don't think I will.

Trask: Mr. Slade!

Frank Slade:This is such a crock of shit!

Trask: Please watch your language, Mr. Slade. You are at the
Baird School now not a barracks. Now Mr. Sims I will give you one final
opportunity to speak up.

Frank Slade: Mr. Sims doesn't want it. He doesn't need to
labeled, "...still worthy of being a 'Baird Man.'" What the hell is
that? What is your motto here? Boys, inform on your classmates, save
your hide. Anything short of that we're gonna burn you at the stake?
Well, gentlemen. When the shit hits the fan, some guys run and some
guys stay. Here's Charlie--facing the fire, and there's George--hiding
in big Daddy's pocket. And what are you doing? You're gonna reward
George, and destroy Charlie.

Trask: Are you finished, Mr. Slade?

Frank Slade: No. I'm just gettin' warmed up. I don't know
who went to this place--William Howard Taft, William Jennings Bryan,
William Tell--whoever. Their spirit is dead; if they ever had one, it's
gone. You're building a rat ship here. A vessel for sea-going snitches.
And if you think your preparing these "minnows" for manhood, you better
think again. Because I say you are killing the very spirit this
institution proclaims it instills! What a sham! What kind of show are
you guys puttin' on here today? I mean, the only class in this act is
sittin' next to me. And I'm here to tell you, this boy's soul is in
tact. It is non-negotiable. You know how I know? Because someone
here--I'm not gonna say who--offered to buy it. Only Charlie here
wasn't selling.

Mr.Trask: Sir, you are out of order!

Frank Slade: Out of order, I'll show you out of order! You
don't know what out of order is Mr. Trask! I'd show you but I'm too
old, I'm too tired, and I'm too fuckin' blind. If I were the man I was
five years ago I'd take a flame-thrower to this place. Out of order?
Who the hell do you think you're talking to!? I've been around, you
know? There was a time I could see. And I have seen, boys like these,
younger than these, their arms torn out, their legs ripped off. But
there is nothin' like the sight of an amputated spirit. There is no
prosthetic for that. You think you're merely sending this splendid
foot-soldier back home to Oregon with his tail between his legs, but I
say that you are executing his soul! And why? Because he's not a Baird
man. Baird men, you hurt this boy, you're going to be Baird Bums, the
lot of ya. And Harry, Jimmy, Trent, wherever you are out there, fuck
you too!

Mr. Trask: Stand down Mr. Slade!

Frank Slade: I'm not finished! As I came in here, I heard
those words...cradle of leadership. Well, when the bough breaks, the
cradle will fall. And it has fallen here, it has fallen! Makers of men,
creators of leaders, be careful what kind of leaders you're producing
here. I don't know if Charlie's silence here today is right or wrong;
I'm no judge or jury. But I can tell you this; he won't sell anybody
out to buy his future! And that, my friends, is called integrity.
That's called courage. Now that's the stuff leaders should be made of.
(pause) Now I have come to the crossroads in my life. I always knew
what the right path was. Without exception, I knew. But I never took
it. You know why? Because it's too damn hard. Now here's Charlie; he's
come to the crossroads. And he's chosen a path. It's the right path.
It's a path made of principle, that leads to character. Let him
continue on his journey. You hold this boy's future in your hands,
committee! It's a valuable future. Believe me! Don't destroy
it...protect it...embrace it. It's going to make you proud one day...I
promise you.